Good advice about
relationships

We will help you to build healthy, respectful relationships

Looking for some good advice about relationships? This website has you covered! It gives helpful tips on how to have healthy, respectful relationships with others – romantic or not – and how to take care of yourself and your friends if things get tough.

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Top tips for epic relationships

Talk it out

Make sure you're always honest and open with each other. Share what's on your mind and really listen to what your partner has to say.

Respect each other's space

It's important to give each other space and respect each other's boundaries. Don't push each other into things you're not comfortable with.

Trust each other

Trust is super important! Be reliable and keep your promises. Avoid getting jealous and try to trust your partner.

Say thanks

Remember to say thank you for the little things. Let your partner know you appreciate them and all they do for you.

Keep your own interests

It's cool to have your own hobbies and friends outside of your relationship. Encourage each other to pursue your passions.

Work through fights together

It's okay to disagree sometimes. When you do, try to understand each other's point of view and find a solution together.

Be kind and supportive

Show kindness and support to each other, especially during tough times. Celebrate each other's successes too!

Get close

Share your feelings and experiences with each other. Spend quality time together and show affection—it's not just about being physical.

Be patient & understanding

Nobody's perfect! Be patient with each other's flaws and mistakes. Understand that it takes time to grow together.

Keep the romance alive

Keep the romance going by surprising each other, going on fun dates, and showing how much you care. Little gestures can make a big difference!

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Seek support if necessary

If you’re struggling to have a difficult conversation, or if you still have questions, consider reaching out for support and guidance.

Further info

What’s the
big deal?

In Australia, research has found that school lessons about relationships and sexuality are kind of okay, but they could be better.

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Important stuff
to think about

  • society

    Society sets up some pretty out-of-date expectations.

  • gender

    Gender stereotypes aren’t helpful.

  • media

    Media is not always the best educator.

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Being a bystander

You might not always be able to intervene, but it’s important to remember that the behaviour you walk past is the behaviour you accept!

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Managing boundaries

It’s important to focus on what you can control and do your best with those things that you can’t control.

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Awkward conversations

It can feel uncomfortable, but they’re a normal part of life and help build stronger relationships and clear up misunderstandings.

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Here's what young people think about our school sessions

Lesson specific – L1

“This lesson was very enjoyable considering It is a difficult topic. There is nothing I didn’t like”

15 Female

Recommend the program

“It contains useful information regarding relationships that everyone should know and apply in life”

18 Female

Lesson specific – L1

“I like how it was interactive and kept my attention. It also touched on topics you wouldn’t necessarily think about”

17 Male

Recommend to other year levels

“I think it is both appropriate and necessary to inform younger year levels of consent and healthy relationships”

17 Female

Recommend to other year levels

“I would recommend it to year groups 9-10 as  I think they need to be informed about this”

18 Female

Lesson specific – L1

“I like how it was interactive and kept my attention. It also touched on topics you wouldn’t necessarily think about”

18 Female

Recommend the program

“Although a lot of it is reinforcement, the smaller/more relatable sessions make it easier to understand and easier to ask questions”

16 Male

Recommend to other year levels

“I think it is both appropriate and necessary to inform younger year levels of consent and healthy relationships”

17 Female

Lesson specific – L1

“This lesson was very enjoyable considering It is a difficult topic. There is nothing I didn’t like”

16 Female